A funeral service is the first step in the grieving process. For those mourning a loss, the days and weeks after the funeral will be an adjustment back to daily life. The emotions of finding closure and reaching a new normal routine will be difficult for some people to handle. There are several things that need to be done, and grief makes it difficult to prioritize and take action. Below is a post funeral checklist of some important issues that should be addressed when the bereaved has the opportunity.
- Certified Copies of the Death Certificate
During the arrangement, Compagnola Funeral Home will record vital information that will be used to file the certificates. We will help you to determine the number of Death Certificates you need. Additional copies can be obtained by contacting the Funeral Home.
- Mail Thank You Cards
- Change all utilities from the Deceased's name.
- Contact all health insurance companies
You should notify the Health Insurance Company to stop coverage of the deceased as of the date of death.
- Contact life insurance company
The insurance company will require a Certified Copy of the Death Certificate, the Insurance Policy, and a claim form to be completed and signed by the beneficiary. The claim form will be provided by the insurance company after they are notified of the death. Should you need assistance completing the form, please feel free to call the Funeral Home for assistance. You will also want to change those policies which the deceased was named beneficiary. Generally the owner of the policy must contact the insurance company to request a change of beneficiary form. This form is then completed and returned to the company. They will then return a rider which is attached to the policy showing the changes made. If you have an insurance agent locally, it is best to contact them for assistance.
- Notify banking institutions
It is recommended that each banking institution, that the deceased had account in, be notified of the death. A Certified Copy of the Death Certificate may be needed by each bank. On any outstanding loans, you will want to check to see if there was life insurance carried on them. If so, your banker will advise and assist you with the details. You will want to remove the deceased’s name from all joint accounts (checking, savings, safety deposit box and any other that your banker recommends) and sign a new signature card for these accounts. This is for your protection, should someone try to gain access to these accounts they could not sign the deceased’s name to them to remove any funds. It is also recommended that if these accounts were held jointly, you may want to continue them to be joint accounts by placing the name of a family member or trusted friend on them with you. Again, this is for your protection. Should you become unable to access these accounts the other individual named could for you.
- Contact automobile insurance companies
You should notify the Automobile Insurance Agent of the change of coverage to any and all automobile policies under the deceased’s name. Your agent will advise you of the proper change needed depending on the ownership changes to the automobiles.
- Notify all credit card companies Cancel and Close all accounts and all cards held individually by the deceased. Cut these cards and either return them to the company or discard them. Remove the deceased’s name from all jointly held cards. This is for your protection. Apply for credit card life insurance coverage held on the accounts of the deceased.
- Contact attorney
Documents needed by the Attorney include the certified copies of the death certificates and the Will. Your attorney will advise you as to any other documentation needed.
- Notify accountant/financial advisor/tax preparer
The above named individual will advise you of any documentation needed. Refer to the “Final Tax Return” section.
- Review your own insurance needs
Often, these needs change after the death of a family member or other loved one. Good organization of your own insurance information can aid survivors at the time this information is needed.
- Keep extra copies of death certificates to send with your income tax returns
You may need to file a “final return” for the deceased or estate income tax returns if the estate itself generates any income.
- Call the Social Security Administration
Social Security benefits include a one time benefit of $255.00 to the surviving spouse or dependent children. Check with your funeral director to determine what claims have already been filed for you.
- Contact the Veteran's Administration
Claim forms can be completed at a Veteran’s Administration Office, the funeral home or Veterans Service Commission. Contact your funeral director to see if this claim has already been filed for you
If you are close to the family but were unable to attend the funeral, you may want to consider not bringing up the death directly. You cant be sure how the are handling the situation and bringing up uncomfortable memories will be difficult. Rather, offer to spend some time together if they need help getting through the days. You'll want to take it upon yourself to maintain contact in the time following the death. The bereaved may not feel the energy or desire to contact someone if they need to talk, so you can take that burden off them. Call or write regularly and continue to include them in your social plans. They may not accept any invitations at first, but be consistent and they'll join you when they're ready. All you can offer to the bereaved is support. Let them know they're not alone.